Allow - I trust this program???

> When I try to use certain 3rd party utility programs I get the:

> "Open File - Security Warning" popup,

There should be a checkbox on that dialog to permanently stop the warning.
You can also do this:
1. Right-click the executable and select properties.
2. On the general tab click the Unblock button
3. Click OK.

I believe you need write-access to the executable to do that.

> Followed by the:
> User Account Control: "An unidentified program wants to access your
> computer"

There is no way to always permit that. It sounds like the program is either
an installer (or detected as such) or it has a manifest that specifies that
it should be running as an admin. What program is it, and what does it do?